A few thoughts on the power of consent.

I turned 74 last week, and I’m thinking of turning away from political commentary. I have tried for 25 years-plus to get people to think for themselves about who will be the best leader for the future of their kids and grandkids, but bottom line always seems to be the economy and who can throw the best insults and tell the most outrageous lies during campaign season.

I’m not changing my mind about Trump, who I feel is acting despicably as president — but he’s acted despicably for decades. If you’re one of his supporters, it doesn’t seem I will change your mind, either. I can’t comprehend why anyone would consent to put Trump in power, and I am not being judgmental. I am stating a fact. Some of you have an opposite point of view than mine. You love Trump and can’t understand why I don’t. We are both at a loss. We seem to be living in a 50-50 world. We are halved.

A way to pull the country back together — if the United States are to stay united — might be to look away from that big difference of opinion and see what we have in common on our respective sides of the political and rhetorical fence constructed between us. 

We didn’t build the fence. Power, wealth and organized religion did, with the intention of keeping us apart. These form a somewhat-equilateral triangle. As a geometric construction in the physical realm, it will fall over if left to itself. The form needs a fourth leg, which will produce a stable, four-sided pyramid. That fourth leg is consent. For the pyramid to remain upright, people have to agree on the role of the other legs. The more people who feel a certain way, the quicker changes happen or the longer things stay the way they are.

Consent is an act of will. Giving someone permission to act in our life is done of our own volition. There are always extenuating circumstance. Over time, I have been about as extenuated as someone living in the U.S. can get.

Every human faces extenuations, though some have fewer than others. We are blessed in this country. Imagine being a 12-year-old Palestinian or Ukrainian kid waiting for a rocket to drop through the roof. They have not given their consent to that.

Consider the following headlines:

Trump calls Zelensky a dictator in post rife with falsehoods

These Words Are Disappearing in the New Trump Administration (they all have to do with social equity)

Trump Issues Order to Expand His Power Over Agencies Congress Made Independent

Trump Promised Americans Booming Wealth. Now He’s Changing His Tune

Kennedy Links Measles Outbreak to Poor Diet and Health, Citing Fringe Theories

Trump Is Elected Chair of Kennedy Center as Its Longtime President Is Fired (by Trump)

Republicans Love Trump’s Spending Cuts. Just Not in Their States

Trump Signs Order Aimed at Dismantling Education Department

Trump administration abruptly cuts billions from state health services

Mass Layoffs Announced at Health and Human Services Dept. (10,000 jobs)

Trump is trying to gain more power over elections. (Extra scary)

This and considerable other damage to the good America has done for its citizens and the world over the last 100-plus years is what the majority of American voters have consented to. Ironically, if statistics prove true, half of the citizens adversely affected by this dismantling voted for Trump.

I didn’t consent to this. If you did, I hope you and Republicans in Congress change your minds before midterm elections. If not, we could all lose our right to express a lack of consent.

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I turned 74 last week, and I’m thinking of turning away from political commentary. I have tried for 25 years-plus to get people to think for themselves about who will be the best leader for the future of their kids and grandkids, but bottom line always seems to be the

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